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To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other.
Don't put them through that either. It requires a special kind of patience, and I think that the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has to be something you can relate to.
It seems like you havent had enough time to get to know him, and honestly you wont for a while.
As a Christian one's values won't allow an affair on the lonely spouse' part either - but that probably won't bug you by the sounds of it.