Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them.
In 5 years, one thing has become certain to me. We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time.
There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic.
I'd suggest the essays. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career.
After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity. He admitted then that there had been another short sexual liaison with a nurse prior to that.
They are exhausted, under tons of pressure, stressed, and expected to be studying hours after their long shifts. Invest in your love and keep it strong.