I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. I'm on the same page as you. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. I cried when I showed the end of a rescue reenactment in my class last week. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. He can't make a mental switch easily to adjust to our pace of life. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love.
Thanks so much for the links. The importance of modesty. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. When I was 19, my boyfriend considered himself an atheist. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy. I thought it was beautiful that they included him in the circle, even though he was not a Priesthood holder. Let's talk about kids. If she says yes.
To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. The average debt of a med school graduate is aboutUSDwhich normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSD of total debt with accrued interest added in. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. Married men should not reach out to vulnerable women who buy their story of being lonely bc they are married to a woman who should have been a librarian. Do what feels right.
That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. How is that gonna work. I just found this blog. Welcome to the future. I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple.