Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself. That said, I would cum fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times.
Pay for the first few dates. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. Learn more about the LDS Church.