But i am struggling to cope with him and his hectic schedule. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments.
I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk.
This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead.
You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together.
And I don't mean my good friend Satan. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness.
The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. As someone starting residency next year and whose father and brother went through it, and whose girlfriend is about to start it I have to say that you can't be mad at him for not sacrificing something to spend time with you - there is literally nothing else to sacrifice; residency is called residency because the doctors used to live in the hospitals, and it was akin to monks in monastery.
For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are.