If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. This beginners guide on how to have anal sex is in-depth. If you want to skip straight to the anal sex techniques and positions section, click here. I have also created a separate guide here on how to full prepare your body for anal sex hygiene, etc. Before we jump in, you may want listen to my anal sex podcast to learn some powerful anal sex tips for intense orgasms.
Making sure anal sex is always a fun and pleasurable experience with your man is important if you want to keep your sex life hot. Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your lover scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. Just like there are a ton of different ways to give your man a good blow job , there are also a lot of fun and pleasurable anal sex positions to try with your man! So if you are looking for a new one, try these…. Listen to more podcast episodes here.
1. Relax your mind...and body
More young women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal, according to the latest research from the Kinsey Institute. If you're considering having anal sex for the first time, you're probably wondering how to prepare, relax, and enjoy the intimate moment with your partner. We called in the experts: Rachel Needle , Psy. The last thing you want to be before attempting anal is tense. If this is your first time trying anal sex, spend some time relaxing—take a hot bath, ask your partner to give you a sensual massage, heck, you can even meditate. You can also focus on specifically relaxing your anal muscles. To see what that feels like, tighten your butt muscles—kind of like a kegel for the other end—and then release. As with all types of sexual activity , anal sex is something that should be discussed beforehand," says Needle. Trust me, this is one area in which you do NOT want any surprises.
Used to be that enjoying anal sex was taboo for women. If a couple did give anal a test drive, it was seen as a once-in-a-while experience—something a woman indulged in for her partner's sake, not because she actually enjoyed it. Lately, however, it seems that this script has been flipped. An increasing number of hetero couples are adding anal sex to their playbook. Slowly, anal is entering the mainstream. And though it's not for everyone, more women are speaking out about the pleasure it brings them. Whether it's your first time trying anal sex or you've experienced it before and are looking for some new ways to enjoy backdoor play, check out these expert-recommended positions. Each makes anal sex comfortable, fun, and intimate. A little advice first: Enjoying anal means giving your body time to warm up and relax, plus using lots of lubricant. Skipping these steps can cause discomfort or pain.