It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. What this guy needs is support and understanding Maybe you didn't intend it this way, but it sounds like you're assuming I'm not already giving him the benefit of the doubt, space, support, and understanding. Your crush might put a lampshade on her head and call it innocent fun. I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. I am not sure if this post can be gone through, if it does, please reply me. The first time, the shrink said, "It is very common for a woman to divorce so their children WILL see their father more. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far.
Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". This is my own personal opinion. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Thanks so much for the links.
I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. I'm currently married to a second year resident in emergency medicine. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. He might be a doc by day but when he's not at the hospital he's a regular guy just like anyone else. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. It is not the norm.
I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. Being what you can even for 2 hours a week will help. No lie he is so very loving and caring understands me feeling,but I must say loving and dating a doctor is really hard. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing.