Note, her mind and TSCC were married first. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there.
Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day.
I can't emphasize this strongly enough. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep.
Nothing less will do.
She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one.