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Now that my boyfriend and I are beginning to talk about a future together, though, I realize that I need to consider this question of marrying outside of the church very carefully.
It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice.
It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. I do know other doctors who have more balance but take a cold hard look at what your life will be like if your man is married to medicine.