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I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even.
If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her.
As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. She is going scxxx dump you.
I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts.
The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough.
I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this.