The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. Sadly, my ward shuns us. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. It is positively shocking.
Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. She may never join the join the church. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Two deployments, two years away and I've reached the point where it is honestly easier when he is away. It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. How do Mormons feel about contraception.
Mormons who marry other Mormons in Mormon temples have a 6. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. One small thing to add here. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women. Because service is important in the Mormon faith, she may be interested in doing something that will help others, like helping someone clean their yard. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. Would love to join. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. Not sure if you are, or not.
She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Am I a homewrecker. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. If you like your regular fix of alcohol or nicotine, then dating a Mormon probably isn't a good idea. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction.