My new book is called, "Looking For: If he doesn't have time to pursue a relationship, and a medical resident usually doesn't, he shouldn't have done that. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage.
Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on.
I won't lie, there are times I have said to myself "what am I doing living like this. We play doctor - then she leaves.